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Is it Selfish to Want to Be Happier?

By Nancy Montagna, Ph.D., & Robin Carnes, MBA

Every now and then, in the midst of the headlong thrust into the next thing on our schedule, we all take a deep breath and pause for a moment of reflection. Ahh...What comes up? If we are honest with ourselves it’s probably a familiar yearning: "I want to be happier. I want more out of life than this."
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Sandwich Generation

By Michelle Gottlieb, Psy.D., MFT

Are you part of the Sandwich Generation? If you are a caretaker of both your parents and your children, guess what? You are! Our parents were part of the Sandwich Generation with their parents. Our children will be part of a Sandwich Generation taking care of us. It is part of life.

Be Optimistic!

By Jill MacDonald, MA, LPC

Dare to allow yourself to think the best. Hope for the best. See the best in yourself and others. Dream. Care. Love. Believe. This type of thinking is good for everyone. Of course, you might challenge me and say: I will hurt so much more if I am optimistic and “it” does not happen...

When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go Of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting On With Our Lives

By Jane Adams, Ph.D. / Published by Free Press Inc.

The lives of grown children constitute an important lens through which we judge ourselves and our accomplishments; it is through reconsidering their adult successes and failures that we seek, retroactively, to validate the kinds of parents we were and the responsible caring we provided.

Navigating the Turbulent Waters of Change

By Jim Weinstein, MFT

Many changes, particularly gradual ones, can be negotiated relatively effortlessly and painlessly. But at dozens, or perhaps even hundreds of times in life, changes occur that are abrupt (perhaps unexpected, perhaps not) and often painful, even if the changes are so-called "positive" ones.

Dealing with Empty Nest Syndrome

By Diane Laney Fitzpatrick & including an interview with Lana Ackaway

Just when you feel you've perfected parenting for all stages of childhood, from infancy through the teen years, you’ll find yourself without an audience. How you handle your empty nest, once you become a parent of grown children, will depend on how well you prepared yourself and your children for that newest stage of your family's life.

Are You in an Unhappy Relationship? Part 2 - The truth about better late than never…

By Claire Arene, MSW, LCSW

Surprisingly, one of the main reasons couples in crisis fail to seek therapy early is their unwillingness to come to terms with the extent to which their relationship has deteriorated, and/or the embarrassment of admitting to others that they are having problems.


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Menopause

Menopause, or the “change of life,” is different for each woman. For example, hot flashes and sleep problems may trouble your sister. Meanwhile, you could have a new sense of freedom and energy. Your best friend might hardly be aware of a change at all.

Predicted Increase in Addiction Among Older Americans

A new survey predicts that the number of Americans age 50 or older who are addicted to alcohol or other drugs will double by 2020.

Midlife Eating Disorders

A surprisingly fast-growing number of individuals in their late 40’s and early 50’s are finding they’re relapsing after having overcome an eating disorder in their youth--and still other "mid-lifers" are experiencing problems related to compulsive food management for the very first time.

Weight-loss Dieting Lowers Inflammation, Could Lower Disease Risk

A growing number of research studies point to chronic inflammation in the body as a risk factor for several diseases, including heart disease, stroke, and diabetes, and for death. A recent study looked at the effects of weight-loss dieting and physical activity on inflammation.

Studies Suggest Low-Calorie Diets Could Slow Aging

Previous research has shown that calorie restriction may slow aging and increase lifespan in small mammals. But would the same apply to humans? Two recent studies supported by the National Institutes of Health indicate this may be the case.

Online Health Information: Can You Trust It?

There are thousands of health-related websites on the Internet. Some of the information on these websites is reliable and can be trusted. Some of it is not. Some of the information is current. Some of it is not. Choosing which website to trust is worth thinking about.

Medications: Use Them Safely

Modern medicine has made our lives better in many ways. It has helped older adults live longer, healthier lives. But people over 65 have to be careful when taking medications, especially when they’re taking many different drugs.

Long-Distance Caregiving

Long-distance caregiving can be figuring out what you can do to help Aunt Lilly sort through her medical bills or thinking about how to make the most of a weekend visit with Mom. It can include checking the references of an aide who’s been hired to help your grandfather or trying to take the pressure off your sister who lives in the same town as her aging parents and her aging in-laws.

The Link Between Depression and Heart Disease

Depression can strike anyone. However, research over the past two decades has shown that people with heart disease are more likely to suffer from depression than otherwise healthy people and, conversely, people with depression are at greater risk for developing heart disease.

One of the Reasons Why Women Tend To Live Longer Than Men…

When the body is stressed it triggers a hormone called oxytocin. This fast hormone flush rather predictably causes the "fight or flight" response in men. However, in women, high estrogen levels can dull the hormone’s effects and instead produce a different reaction, something that can be thought of as a "tend or befriend" response.

When You're Older and Depressed...

Depression among the elderly can be hard to recognize. Often symptoms--such as decreased appetite or insomnia--are attributed to other health problems or to aging in general. It isn't "normal" to feel depressed all the time when you get older--in fact, most older people feel satisfied with their lives. Nonetheless, among people 65 years of age and over--as many as 3 out of 100--suffer from clinical depression.

Primary Care Doctors May Overlook Elderly Patients’ Mental Health

A recent study's results indicate that primary care doctors need more support in how to identify, treat and refer patients to mental health specialists.

Mourning the Death of a Spouse

Andrew, age 73, felt like the wind had been knocked out of him when his wife died. He began sleeping all day and staying up at night watching TV. Meals were mostly snacks like cookies and chips. He knew it wasn't healthy, but he didn't know what to do. Across town, Alice woke up in a panic. It had been 5 weeks since Jeff, her husband of 41 years, died. She cared for him during his long illness. How was she going to cope with the loneliness?

Nursing Homes: Making the Right Choice

Emma’s family didn’t know what to do. Her son put grab bars in the shower. Her daughter brought lunch over every day. The neighbors checked in often. But at 82 Emma needed more help. Staying home alone just wasn’t working for Emma.

Older Drivers

At age 75, Sheila thinks she's a very good driver. And she wanted to stay that way. So she got her eyes and hearing checked to make sure she can see and hear well enough to drive safely. Then she signed up to take a driving course for older drivers at her local automobile club. Will all this effort guarantee Sheila's road safety?

Osteoporosis: The Bone Thief

Bone is living tissue. To keep bones strong, your body is always breaking down old bone and replacing it with new bone tissue. As people enter their forties and fifties, more bone is broken down than is replaced.

Helping Depressed Elderly Reduce Suicidal Thoughts

Older Americans comprise 13 percent of the population but account for 18 percent of all suicides. The major risk factor for suicide in late life is major depression. Since most older Americans who kill themselves have seen their doctor within a month of the event, effectively treating depression in primary care is a preventive intervention that can save lives.

Alcohol Affects Older People Differently

Alcohol's effects do vary with age. Even small amounts of alcohol can create problems for older people because as the body ages, the effects of alcohol can become amplified. The likelihood of taking more medications as you get older also risks increasing alcohol's effects.

Depression and Stroke

Depression can strike anyone, but people with serious illnesses such as stroke are at greater risk. Appropriate diagnosis and treatment of depression can bring substantial benefits to persons recovering from a stroke by improving their medical status, enhancing their quality of life, reducing their pain and disability, and even shortening the rehabilitation process.

 





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